Most of us have had a secret admirer at some time in our lives. It was a great ego booster to know someone had a crush on you. While it shouldn't be any secret that you love your spouse, it would be an ego booster for him or her to know that you still have a "crush" on them.
Remember those love notes passed around in class, sometimes sent anonymously? Why not pen a secret admirer note to your wife or husband. As long as it is in your handwriting it won't really be a secret, but I don't think any man or woman would want someone else sending anonymous love notes to their mate. Mail the note to them at work or place it somewhere in the house or car where they are certain to find it.
If you are able to arrange it, have the note direct your sweetheart to meet their "secret admirer" at a particular location and time for a rendezvous. It could be for lunch, a cocktail, a romantic weekend at a nearby hotel, a stroll through the park, or some other meeting place.
Keep the crush alive!
Michael Webb is author of The RoMANtic's Guide: Hundreds of Creative Tips for a Lifetime of Love. You can order at Amazon.com or for more of Michael's FREE tips, visit TheRomantic.com |
