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About Men
Why won’t men commit? This seems to be the oldest question in the book. For years women have been trying to figure out what goes on in the minds of men. There are several reasons why men won’t commit. We will explore a few of those infamous reasons.
Men are very funny. They believe the world should revolve around them. If they find a woman who will conform to their lifestyle, then it’s easy to get them to commit to a relationship. The issue here of course, is that most women will not conform – nor should they – to any man’s lifestyle.
About Women
How do I get a woman to respond to me The reason men don’t do well with women is mainly because men do not understand women. This sounds so easy but in fact, it is very difficult. Women love to be wooed. If you think that coming up to a woman and spitting out, "Hey babe, I’m the guy you have been looking for all your life" is going to work, think again.
The first and foremost way to get a woman to respond to you is to simply be yourself. Don’t try all those stupid, moronic pickup lines. Give women a little more credit. When approaching a woman, act natural and do not, I repeat, do not, try to pick her up. Just smile and be happy. This is the biggest attraction a man can have when first meeting a woman. Keep it light and fun. The more fun you are, the more chance you have of actually having the woman respond to you. If you act like you are trying to pick up the woman, she is not going to respond to you. Nobody wants to be "picked up," except, of course, men, who love to be "picked up" because it’s great for their egos.
About Women
How to be nice when you are being asked out This will be short and straight to the point. I don’t care who is asking you out, your response must be humane. As you all know, asking someone out is the hardest thing most people will ever do in their lifetime. Everyone, no matter how old or good looking, fears rejection.
So when someone approaches you for a date, be polite and courteous. Remember, that could be you on the other end. Instead of thinking to yourself, "I wouldn’t go out with that geek if you paid me," be flattered someone put themselves in that vulnerable position on your behalf.
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